Dear Princess Darby,

I've been in a relationship for two years, and deciding if I want to commit longer, or pull out of it.

My boyfriend is interviewing and thinking of changing job markets. If he succeeds, which he ususally does, he'll ask me to move with him.

I don't know if I want to be a transplant right now. What do you think? What is he thinking?

What about me.



Monday, February 3, 2002

Dear What About Me,

Your last sentence is what this is all about.

You should know in 6 months where a relation ship is heading.

Afterall, when you start a new job, isn't there a 30 or 45 days probationary period? What makes a relationship any different? There's also a "performance" and "merit" review.

Review this relationship. Keep your suitcases in storage, and "review" the prospective change with perspective.

Princess Darby